Are you a great starter, but a poor finisher? Itโ€™s a common ailment. The beginning of any adventure is full of excitement and enthusiasm, but it doesnโ€™t always last. Part of being a successful adult is learning how to finish things. Itโ€™s part strategy and part grit. There are always a few sticking points to endure and overcome. Life canโ€™t be all fun and games.

Develop the habit of being a finisher:

  1. Understand when youโ€™re likely to quit. Look at your past. When are you most likely to throw in the towel? What were your reasons for stopping at the time? Can you think of a strategy for getting through those times? Is there a way to avoid them altogether?
  2. Dole out your time wisely. Getting caught up in too many meaningless projects wonโ€™t improve your ability to finish things. When possible, limit yourself to those things that really interest you. Life is too short for hobbies that make you want to shrug. If youโ€™re passionate about something, youโ€™re much more likely to get it done.

  3. Track your progress. When you can visually see how much progress youโ€™ve made, youโ€™ll feel more motivated to continue. Make a chart, graph, or other visual representation of the work youโ€™ve completed.

  4. Visualize the expected result. Constantly remind yourself how great youโ€™ll feel when youโ€™re done. Make note of all the benefits youโ€™re receive.

  5. Have realistic expectations. If you didnโ€™t start playing piano at a young age and practiced for several thousand hours before your 18th birthday, itโ€™s unlikely youโ€™ll ever reach the level of a world-class pianist. This is especially true if youโ€™re 48 years old, have a family, and only have 30 minutes a day to practice.

    ๐Ÿ’ While itโ€™s admirable to strive for perfection, be careful. Youโ€™ll always quit if perfection is the only acceptable outcome. Have realistic expectations for your situation.
  6. Be realistic with your timetable. You might be making good progress, but if you believed that you shouldโ€™ve mastered the Russian language by now, youโ€™ll become discouraged. Itโ€™s not easy to estimate the amount of time it will take to complete something.

    ๐Ÿ’ Do you have a history of thinking that things will take less time than they actually do? Build a fudge-factor into your estimates.

    ๐Ÿ’ After youโ€™ve make a little progress, revisit your expectations and adjust them accordingly.

    ๐Ÿ’ If youโ€™re enjoying yourself, who cares how long it takes? Once youโ€™re done, the fun is over!
  7. Get better at finishing the small tasks in your life. If youโ€™re washing the dishes, avoid leaving that greasy, disgusting pan until morning. Fold all the clothes rather than leaving some of them for later. Clean the entire room. Pay all of the bills. Run the full 3 miles you planned to run.
  • Finishing is a habit. Get in the habit of finishing all of the tasks in your life.
  • Be immune to criticism. One of the reasons we stop before completing a project is to avoid criticism. Once itโ€™s done and available for the world to judge, we can get apprehensive. Then we rationalize reasons not to complete it. The people that matter wonโ€™t be unkind. The unkind people donโ€™t matter.
  • Thereโ€™s no way to stop the criticism, but you donโ€™t have to allow it to bother you.

These small tips can be a great help in finishing future projects. If thereโ€™s one trait youโ€™ll find in high-achievers, itโ€™s the ability to get things done. Half-finished projects are incredibly wasteful. You put in a lot of work and didnโ€™t receive the benefit. Learn how to finish and observe the impact it has on your life.

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